Defining Masculinity & Femininity

Debunking the gender binary myth as a tool to mass produce patriarchal power systems

Are masculinity and femininity mutually exclusive states determined by biological sex at birth? NOPE!

Coco debunks the false gender binary framework to explain how masculinity and femininity represent polarities of a whole entity, whether it’s a human being or organization. From a systems level perspective, Coco explains how feminine vision guides masculine action so the polarities can never be cleanly separated out as mutually exclusive on any level.

Maintaining the myth of the gender binary is really about mass producing patriarchal power systems that generate male supremacy at the expense of all women, non-binary, queer and trans folk.

Ultimately, the gender binary is about conditioning all people to believe we are inherently incomplete and lacking for a counterpart at immutable biological level.

From this space of profound inner lack and insecurity, people are then motivated to seek attachment not connection with each other.

Coco breaks down the difference between attachment and connection and why attachment is the basis of narcissistic abuse and enmeshment while connection is the foundation of healthy love.

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